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My Spouse Cheated, But I Still Miss Him
"I'm embarrassed about this, but I miss the husband who I kicked out three weeks ago due to his affair. Something will happen and I will think 'oh, I have to share this with my husband' or 'I have to tell my husband about this,' and then I'll realize that I really can't easily share this with him because I kicked him out. When I get home after a long day, I find myself wishing he was there so that we could share dinner. I find myself wishing that he could tuck the kids into bed and I know that this isn't fair to anyone because he made his choice. He calls every night to talk to the kids. He tries to talk to me, but I admit that I'm pretty distant with him. I get off the phone quickly, but then I find myself wishing I'd talked to him. He texts and emails me, but I delete them. He says that if I would give him a chance, he would make this up to me. I am angry at myself for missing him like this and for even considering his offer. How can I make it stop?"